THIS IS US And We're Lovely

Article first published as THIS IS US Review on Seat42F.

Are you missing Parenthood? NBC must understand because, while the Bravermans are not slated to return any time soon, a new drama looking to fill that place in your heart is on its way. Called THIS IS US, it’s far from a clone of that wonderful, much-missed series, but it does tug at many of the same emotional heart strings as a number of stories play out.

At the onset, we are introduced to four individuals who share a birthday, all turning thirty-six. There’s: Kevin (Justin Hartley, Smallville, The Young and the Restless), an actor frustrated with a sitcom that has made him a star, but that he considers beneath him; Kate (Chrissy Metz, American Horror Story: Freak Show), an extremely overweight woman who is desperately trying to lose the pounds; Randall (Sterling K. Brown, The People v. O.J. Simpson: American Crime Story), an adopted man seeking the druggie father who abandoned him (Ron Cephas Jones, Mr. Robot); and an expectant father, Jack (Milo Ventimiglia, Heroes, Gilmore Girls), whose wife, Rebecca (Mandy Moore, Tangled), is going into labor with triplets.

The above plot threads may seem carefully calculated to tug at the heart strings, and they probably are. After all, drama writers have to know how to write drama that will land with viewers. Yet, it doesn’t feel forced, the performances of all lending themselves to a very authentic-seeming story with a bunch of people you will quickly come to care about. Like the best of the primetime stuff, it can be a bit more than the normal person goes through, but it avoids the soapy ridiculousness of the more comedy-leaning programs.

There are supporting characters, too, as there must be to keep the stories going. In the core cast is Randall’s wife, Beth (Susan Kelechi Watson, Louie), and a love interest for Kate, fellow fat support group member Toby (Chris Sullivan, The Knick). The latter gets more development initially, and he has some rough edges, but I think both will be fine players in future installments, which will surely use them as more than just small, side parts.

Clearly present are strong themes of family and acceptance, the two main viewpoints expressed, and ones worth hanging a show on. There are bonds here that we will (hopefully) almost all relate to, and characters that are immediately sympathetic. It’s good stuff.

The closest THIS IS US comes to breaking new ground is probably in Kate’s story. We’re not used to seeing people quite so heavy on television, and especially not in a leading role like this. Yes, Mike and Molly existed, but it was by and large (no pun intended) a comedy that played with stereotypes, and its subversion of the norm was less blatant. THIS IS US goes head-on tackling the issues, motivations, and sorrows for someone who is struggling with body size, and it may do for the overweight what series like Will & Grace and Modern Family did for gays. Specifically, teach viewers to have more compassion for their fellow human beings, promoting understanding of the problems real people struggle with. I dig it.

Given the type of series this is and the way the first hour unfolds, if you’ve watched much of this type of television at all, you’ll begin to wonder where the connections between the characters are. Aside from the show Touch, one expects everyone to connect pretty solidly in an ensemble cast like this. And while I refuse to spoil anything, I will say that I called the ending “twist” by midway through the episode. However, I wasn’t completely sure I was right until it actually played out because it’s a bit of a tricky one, and it does something I didn’t expect a show like this to do. Kudos for some interesting writing.

THIS IS US premieres Tuesday, September 20th at 10/9c on NBC.

"May God Bless and Keep You Always," PARENTHOOD

Article first published as TV Review: 'Parenthood' Series Finale - "May God Bless and Keep You Always" on Blogcritics.

 

The one word that best sums up NBC’s Parenthood series finale, “May God Bless and Keep You Always,” is beautiful. From start to finish, it’s chock full of moving moments, paying off character relationships, and setting up the various players for bright futures. It’s sweet and tear-worthy, sad, and promising. It makes me miss the show already, and it’s only just left us.

The meat of “May God Bless and Keep You Always” revolves around Sarah’s (Lauren Graham) wedding to Hank (Ray Romano), which is a natural place to go. For one, it allows Sarah a romantic ending, something that eludes her over the six seasons of the show. For another, events like this bring everyone together and make them rethink their priorities. It spurs big decisions and tender moments.

One of the best moments of Parenthood is Zeek (Craig T. Nelson) asking Sarah if he’s a good father as the two sit on the porch together. They’ve had their ups and downs, as everyone has on Parenthood, yet they come through stronger than ever. It’s a familial bond echoed among all of the characters, and while it may be inappropriate for Zeek to tell Sarah that she’s his favorite, it’s true enough in the moment, and it means everything to her.

There are a myriad of other examples of the same throughout the too-short hour. Adam (Peter Krause) shows Crosby (Dax Shepard) he’s proud of him as Crosby steps into his own. Zeek and Camille (Bonnie Bedelia) ask Amber (Mae Whitman) to move in with them, providing much-needed help with her infant. Haddie (Sarah Ramos) returns and tells Max (Max Burkholder) how much she appreciates him being her brother. Hank asks Drew (Miles Heizer) to be his best man, leading to an awkward, in-character speech. All of these are homeruns.

Some viewers have complained that everyone gets their happy endings, but optimism has always been a central tenant of the show. We get flash forwards showing where each character is just a few years down the road, and no one is sad. But how is that any different than Kristina (Monica Potter) successfully fighting her way through cancer or Joel (Sam Jaeger) and Julia (Erika Christensen) making their marriage work? It’s not. Having Joel and Julia end up with four children, echoing the Braverman clan, makes it even more perfect.

There’s sadness in “May God Bless and Keep You Always,” too. Zeek’s season-long arc comes to an end when he passes away. This is necessary because it’s realistic and it serves the story Parenthood has been telling in year six. But interspersing his memorial baseball game with the flash forwards emphasizes the cycle of life, and that this marvelous family Zeek and Camille built will keep their heart-warming traditions alive, continuing to grow and being loving towards one another. 

Parenthood is a sappy series, and never more so than its final episode. That isn’t a complaint, though. It’s the perfect family drama, giving us authentic relationships with usually-genuine conflict, but showing how such can be overcome. In a world where this type of family is rapidly disappearing, I’m lucky enough to belong to a clan very similar to the Bravermans (as the eldest grandchild), and I’ve very much enjoyed seeing that experience shared with the viewing public in general. This does exist, and can for more families (though not all) if they really work at it.

If I have one complaint about the final episode of Parenthood (and about the series in general) is that it’s too short. Each of the many players are served, but we’re left craving more. How does Amber meet the man she settles down with (Friday Night Lights’ Scott Porter)? What does Max make of his life? Does Drew marry Natalie (Lyndon Smith)? Many popular recurring characters show up at the wedding, too, and they don’t have time for story. An important cameo with Seth (John Corbett) is completely cut for time, though thankfully available online.

I would have liked to have seen further glimpses farther into the future, too. But the reason that isn’t done is clear, because Parenthood wants to keep its fantastic young actors, who would have had to be recast for such scenes, at its core.

Honestly, though, I do have one more complaint, and that is that it seems off that Kristina steps away from the school she builds and hands it over to Adam. It’s not that she doesn’t love her husband or that he doesn’t deserve to be happy, but couldn’t they have run it together? She worked so hard creating it, and then she just walks away. A single regrettable misstep in the almost flawless hour.

Now, Parenthood’s finale does echo Jason Katims’ previous show, Friday Night Lights, ending, but I don’t see that as a bad thing. Despite sharing a number of performers, Parenthood and Friday Night Lights also briefly share characters (as does Katims’ slightly inferior About a Boy), so they are in the same universe, thus making it acceptable to share DNA. Knowing this, I cannot wait to see what movie Katims turns into a beloved show next, and which actors cross over to it.

Thank you to all involved in Parenthood, which also starred Joy Bryant, Savannah Paige Rae, Tyree Brown, and Xolo Mariduena, for six years I am likely to revisit and will never forget.

"It Has to Be Now" for PARENTHOOD

Article first published as "It Has to Be Now" for PARENTHOOD on TheTVKing.

NBC's Parenthood has always been a critical darling that struggled in the ratings, leading to a number of truncated seasons with reduced episode counts. Finally, though, as season five premieres this week with "It Has to Be Now," fans have been promised a full fall-through-spring offering of the family drama that makes you feel good.

"It Has to Be Now" picks up many months after last January's finale, with Jasmine (Joy Bryant) quickly going into labor for the baby we just found out she was pregnant with in the previous installment. Setting aside the extreme oddity that overbearing grandmother Renee (Tina Lifford) is completely absent from the episode, it's a great moment for Parenthood, showing a happy, monumental moment in the clan's life.

Crosby (Dax Shepard) does not adjust well to the infant. He tries staying awake whenever Jasmine is, but that makes them both sleep-deprived and on edge. Jasmine admits this baby is far more work than Jabbar (Tyree Brown), whom Crosby missed out on, was, so we know it's not just the normal level of difficulty Crosby faces. It doesn't help that they haven't agreed on a baby name, or that Crosby's family invades their home for an extended period of time to meet their newest member.

Luckily, Crosby has Adam (Peter Krause) to talk to. The brothers have a very interesting, close relationship. They have plenty of differences, and certainly approach rearing children in varied ways, but their love is enough to give them the connection. Adam doesn't understand why Crosby doesn't feel connected to his baby, but he does offer words of encouragement. Crosby will get through this.

At first, I though Parenthood was setting up Crosby and Jasmine for more conflict, evidenced by their constant bickering throughout the hour, and we've had more than enough of that. Thankfully, it's only a realistic portrayal of frayed nerves parents would have in such a situation, and they are in a good place by the end of "It Has to Be Now." They can make it through, as long as they stick together.

Interestingly, this rocky couple is perhaps the most stable in "It Has to Be Now," in which two of Crosby's married siblings go through rough patches with their own spouses. Julia (Erika Christensen) can't find a job because of her vindictive ex-boss, meaning she has to stay home, something she isn't really glad to do, no matter how what she says. And Joel (Sam Jaeger) is working for a girl (Sonya Walger, Lost) who you can just tell will be bad news.

I know Parenthood is a drama, but does it have to threaten to destroy seemingly stable marriages? It wasn't enjoyable to watch Joel and Julia fight last season about a kid they took in, and it won't be fun to see them at odds again this year. Strife is one thing, but if Parenthood splits them up, that could be nearly unforgivable.

Eh, who am I kidding? Parenthood is so emotionally satisfying each and every week I'll keep watching no matter what they do, even hurt beloved characters. For every raw, angry scene, there are three that make viewers tear up a bit, in a good way. This is is the case with "It Has to Be Now," and nearly every episode that came before it, the show not having lost even an ounce of quality over the past few years.

The issues between Adam and Kristina (Monica Potter) seem less fundamental and more just that the two are out of sync with one another right now. Kristina wants to run for the office of mayor because her pal, Gwen (Rose Abdoo), reminds her that cancer survivors should not put things off. Adam is more cautious, worried Kristina will get sick again if she doesn't take it easy, which is the last thing she wants to do, grateful for every day, and wanting to get the most out of life while she still has it. They'll get on the same page eventually, once Adam sees she's OK and happy.

They also are a little upset over their son, Max (Max Burkholder) hanging out with Adam's sister's ex-boyfriend, Hank (Ray Romano). Adam is worried that Hank is trying to get back with Sarah (Lauren Graham) through Max, but when confronted, Hank insists the break up was mutual, and Max is seeking him out, not the other way around. Adam seems mollified.

I understand Adam's hesitation, but I'm glad that it's passing because Hank and Max really connect. I don't know if Hank shares some of Max's limitations, though if he does, Hank is a much more mild case on the autistic scale. But neither are particularly people persons, and they share an interest in photography they can bond over. Max could use a good mentor who doesn't mind his at-times grating personality, and Hank seems to fill those shoes perfectly.

Admittedly, when hearing Romano was returning to the show I assumed his reconciliation with Sarah was inevitable. But now, I couldn't care one way or the other if he gets back with Sarah (though I'll cheer for it if it happens). Hank's relationship with Max is great and extremely satisfying on its own. If that's the way Parenthood wants to keep Romano, who is absolutely wonderful on the show, around, I doubt they'll be many complaints.

Besides, Sarah has enough to worry about without Hank re-entering her life. She is the landlady of a building with some not-so-responsible tenants, one of whom will probably be a love interest, and she feels neglected by her college student son, Drew (Miles Heizer). Daughter Amber's (Mae Whitman) comments about Sarah to Drew are spot on and hilarious, the little dysfunctional family working just as well as any family can. But it's good Drew eases Sarah's tension before the end of the episode.

With all the drama unfolding at the start of the season, Parenthood needs something joyous to end the hour with, book-ending the birth at the beginning of "It Has to Be Now." This comes when Ryan (Matt Lauria) returns from war and proposes to Amber, who enthusiastically accepts. They are young, and just coming away from a bad place, Ryan may be acting a little irrationally. However, they have weathered a couple of storms already, and it would not be unwelcome for them to actually tie the knot.

Parenthood takes us up and down the roller coaster of family life, but it's always a fun ride that you're glad you went on. This season's premiere promises another great batch of Braverman stories.

Parenthood airs Thursdays at 10 p.m. ET on NBC.

Parenthood has its rewards

Article first published as Parenthood has its rewards on TheTVKing

The season finale of NBC's Parenthood, entitled "Because You're My Sister," was very busy. The Braverman clan is a large family, and it takes quite a bit of time to serve each family member in their story. Not every episode makes it around to everyone, but this one did better than most at serving a large number of the cast.

A huge part of the sweetness this week comes when Victor's (Xolo Mariduena) adoption is finalized. The entire family piles into a single courtroom, and many of them get to take turns telling Victor how glad they are that he is a part of their clan, and what they are willing to do for him. Every Parenthood season finale needs an organic group scene like this. We see Julia (Erika Christensen) struggle in previous episode with the decision to accept Victor, and it's great to see her affection grow towards him. But it's also wonderful when everyone else jumps on, and this finally makes Victor seem like one of the Bravermans and not just one of the Grahams.

Of course, the road to the courthouse isn't without incident. I'm not talking about Victor breaking the expensive bowl, because it almost seems like a test of Julia done on purpose. At minimum, it's an accident that scares Victor. It isn't until that moment that Victor knows he is fully welcome in their home. But by that time, the drama of doubt is over, as Julia has already made her decision, and she's not going to go back on it.

No, I'm talking about Sydney (Savannah Paige Rae) telling Victor that he isn't her brother. It's a natural thing for a kid to feel or say, acting out against change. However, that doesn't make it any less cruel. I feel like Victor understands that Sydney is just blowing off steam, because he's had enough practice at doing the same thing himself lately. He's also anxious to be part of the family after Julia accepts him, and so does what he needs to do to win Sydney over. It's gratifying when Sydney comes around, too, even if it doesn't take some big event to move her.

Part of what Parenthood does well is write authentically for the children, and actually give them something to do. Many series with kids running around ignore the youngsters, or use them only as comedic gags against the adults. Parenthood lets Sydney and Victor act their age, and have a bit of real story between them. Very cool.

Victor isn't the only new face joining the Bravermans. Crosby (Dax Shepard) and Jasmine (Joy Bryant) learn they will soon be having a new baby. As the youngest of the Braverman couples, and the most ready for a new addition, this is great news. It might be slightly unexpected, as it hasn't been addressed in the story that they are trying, but at the same time, it just feels like a natural part of life moving on.

The news of a baby makes Crosby take stock of his situation with his mother-in-law, Renee (Tina Lifford). It's not that Crosby is wrong in his argument with Renee, but it's more that he needs to just let his anger go. Renee does overstep with her grandson, but she's family, and Crosby understands that. Renee has done a lot for them, especially Crosby's son, Jabbar (Tyree Brown), so sometimes, one should overlook her faults. I don't know that she will be moving back in with them anytime soon, but it's nice to see peace, and I like what having Renee around does to Crosby, forcing him to mature, eventually anyway.

 A tragedy is averted in "Because You're My Sister" when we learn that Kristina (Monica Potter) has beat her cancer. She's not cured, but she is cancer free. Honestly, I feel like cancer is the go-to crisis in family dramas, and I never cared for the story. It's great to see Kristina healthy, if for no other reason than it puts this arc to rest. Hopefully, the illness with not come back.

Other good news in the episode comes for many other characters. Drew (Miles Heizer) gets into a great school, the first in his immediate family to attend college, even if it takes him far away from Amy (Skyler Day), who things are over with anyway. Amber (Mae Whitman) reunites with Ryan (Matt Lauria), something she is afraid of, with cause, but wants, and maybe he could make her happy.

Lastly, though, after all of this happiness, is the tear jerker story. Sarah (Lauren Graham) has to choose between Mark (Jason Ritter), who makes a play to win her back, and Hank (Ray Romano), who she is currently with. Sarah chooses Hank, who then promptly announces he's moving to Minnesota to be with his daughter.

This is rough, but there's little that could be done to make it better, and it all unfolds very naturally. Some argue that Sarah always chooses the wrong guy, but I think that she is right in picking Hank. After all, she has made several attempts with Mark, and they just don't seem to work for all that long. Hank cares about her, and he's good to her. There is no doubt in my mind that he could make her happy. The twist with his daughter only presents him as a better man. Plus, how much would Hank shake up the dynamics when the whole clan comes together?

So what should Sarah do now? Should she move with Hank to Minnesota? I really want her to, but only if the series follows her, and they find a way to come back at some point next season. I don't think that she can go back to Mark now, not after telling him she chose Hank. It will make him feel like second place, which will only implode their next relationship more quickly. Or she might find someone else, which is a little bit of a shame, given that she already has two amazing actors after her character. It would take someone really, really good to be worthy at this point.

The mostly feel-good plots of "Because You're My Sister" allow Parenthood to end on an uplifting note, even as some sadness is mixed in. All of it tugs at the heart perfectly, and it remains one of the best family dramas in recent memory. Hopefully this won't be a series finale, but if it does turn out to be so, at least the series finished well.

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Parenthood keeps on rowing

Parenthood - "Keep on Rowing"
Grade: 88%

NBC's Parenthood returns this week for the final few episodes of the fourth season with "Keep on Rowing." Kristina (Monica Potter) tries to reward her husband, Adam (Peter Krause), for putting up with her behavior lately. Crosby (Dax Shepard) considers helping out his mother-in-law, Renee (Tina Lifford). Julia (Erika Christensen) begins to have second thoughts about adopting Victor (Xolo Mariduena). And Hank (Ray Romano) helps Sarah (Lauren Graham) get over her ex.

Parenthood has gone a little more melodramatic this season, taking the story into areas it doesn't necessarily need to go to keep the drama up, and getting a bit preachy at times. Thank goodness the Bravermans remain the same engaging, lovable characters they always have been, or else this slightly less than stellar storytelling could begin to drag the series down.

The most frustrating arc has been Kristina's cancer. It's a common card pulled out in a family drama after a few years on the air, when the ideas start to run a bit dry. However, without the drama behind the scenes, a la Brothers & Sisters, there seems little chance that Kristina will actually perish, as the sensibilities of the show are lighter than that. Thus, each attempt to make her situation seem dire just comes across as hokey.

That being said, it's sweet to see Adam being a good husband. I mean, we know that Adam is a good husband, but it's nice to be reminded of just how sweet he is. And then for Kristina to not only acknowledge that, but also to try to repay him a bit for his patience and support, well, that gets genuinely moving. Plus, she looks good with the red hair, and the surprise cameo by Ryan Hansen (Veronica Mars, 2 Broke Girls), hitting on a vivacious Kristina in the bar, is fun.

The sucky story of "Keep on Rowing" goes to Crosby. Adam has to talk him into agreeing to loan Renee money, and then Jasmine (Joy Bryant) practically bullies her mother into their house. Taking care of family is important, something Crosby ought to understand, given his upbringing, and the people that make up his own relations. Perhaps he may not want Renee in his house, and that's understandable. But that doesn't mean that he can protest and still be a sympathetic character. In the end, Crosby does the right thing, but it feels a bit too little, too late for viewers who have to sit through his selfish whining.

I also am not a fan of Julia turning against Victor. I can see why she'd be upset, with Victor throwing a bat near Sydney (Savannah Paige Rae). I even feel Joel (Sam Jaeger) may have under-reacted at first to the incident. However, stretching this into Julia considering not keeping Victor may just go too far, especially after only one occurrence of this nature, and one that can so clearly be chalked up to an accident.

The thing is, everything about this incident is understandable. From Sydney being a brat and running her mouth, to Victor's response and feeling bad about it later, to Julia's fear for her daughter, it all makes sense, given the characters and the circumstances. I don't like the story because I want to see Julia win Victor over, and Victor to eventually feel like part of the family. Yet, it's done in such an authentic way, and acted well, that it doesn't deserve to be complained about.

I am extremely disappointed to see things between Sarah and Mark (Jason Ritter) come to an end. There is so much working against them, it is satisfying when they finally find a way to be happy as a couple. Still, there are enough issues in the relationship that the fact that it ends isn't entirely surprising, even if there is also real love present.

Now that Mark is gone, though, the door has really opened for Hank, who seems a much better match for the elder Braverman daughter. He relates to Sarah, and it seems like he feels lucky to be with her. This means that he will treat her well, and she is certainly smitten with him, too. They started things way too soon, to be sure, with Sarah and Mark having only recently split, but at the same time, they kind of act like soul mates. Hank also brings a new personality to the series that isn't there until he arrives, which should shake up the dynamics nicely.

Only time will tell if Parenthood can find a way to make Hank a main character, as he deserves to be. That is, should Parenthood get a fifth season, which is not a certainty at this point.

"Keep on Rowing" is a solid episode in a solid season. Even when the plots stray a bit too far away from where I'd like them to go, this show remains compelling, and I look forward to watching each new episode. I think the missteps are just disappointments because I know how amazing Parenthood is at its best, so when it stumbles to only better than average, it feels like a slight let down. If it does go off the air, I will be disappointed and miss it. I consider that the true test for if a show is good or not, and on that scale, Parenthood definitely passes.

Parenthood airs Tuesdays at 10 p.m. ET on NBC.

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Parenthood a "Family Portait" of characters

Grade: 89%

NBC’s PARENTHOOD returns this week with “Family Portrait.” Picking up five months after where last season left off, which makes sense, since it ended in late February, the Braverman clan gather to take a picture together. As one might expect, the road to get there is a little rocky, but it all comes together in the end, and there are some fantastic snapshots to show for it. Which doubles as a great summary of the series, too.

Sarah (Lauren Graham) is upset because Camille (Bonnie Bedelia) won’t let Mark (Jason Ritter) into the picture, even though they are engaged. The couple has not set a date yet, and Mark hasn’t even put a ring on her finger yet, so one might understand Camille’s hesitance, especially when there is a cautionary tale involving Crosby (Dax Shepard) already in the family’s history. But engaged means something, right?

Well, maybe not. Ritter is still only a recurring player, and PARENTHOOD quickly introduces someone else with their eye on Sarah, played by Ray Romano (Everybody Loves Raymond, Men of a Certain Age). Ray is a grumpy guy who has been hurt, but may come out of his shell a bit for Sarah. Plus, he has great chemistry with Drew (Miles Heizer), and also more age appropriate, as Mark shows some immaturity when dealing with the picture situation. No one wants to see Ritter leave, but if he does, it’s nice to know someone as fantastic as Romano is waiting in the wings to take his place. He is good in episode one, much, much better in episode two.

Adam (Peter Krause) and Kristina (Monica Potter) face their own impending departure as it’s time for Haddie (Sarah Ramos) to leave for college. Interestingly, Ramos continues to be listed as a main character, though she is absent from episode two, and there haven’t been any hints that the series might follow her to school. Whether she comes back a lot or a little, PARENTHOOD handles her leaving, withd all the pressures and mixed emotions that go with it, as wonderfully as one has come to expect from the show. Even better, these things continue for her parents into the second episode of the season in a very cute way.

Julia (Erika Christensen) is in a completely different stage of parenthood, still walking on egg shells around her newly adopted son. While Joel (Sam Jaeger) is ready to start treating the boy normally, as Sydney (Savannah Paige Rae) doesn’t understand the special circumstances so well, Julia is so afraid that he won’t be comfortable with them that she goes overboard in trying to make him feel accepted and welcome. Who is right? The answer may surprise you.

Things are not all peaches for the fourth Braverman offspring, either. Crosby and Jasmine (Joy Bryant) seem like a solid couple now, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t still have challenges. Crosby slipped back into less domesticated ways during their time apart, and getting back into the swing of things will not be easy. He may want to be a great husband, and he’ll try, but that doesn’t mean he can do everything that he wants to do. Look for a shifting balance here as the couple figures out what a mature marriage looks like. Frustrating for Crosby, it looks a lot like what Adam and Kristina have, though surely this younger pair will find their own way to do it.

The other story of note in “Family Portrait” belongs to Amber (Mae Whitman). When last we saw her, she made a very adult decision, picking a possible career over a boyfriend. In the first episode back, she makes the mistake of sleeping with a guy who is otherwise involved. Adam rushes to her rescue, his feelings about Haddie possibly clouding his judgment. What is impressive is the way in which Amber deals with the situation, showing how much she has grown. Her maturation has been a true pleasure to watch, and seeing her enter the real world with grace and good decision making skills is terrific.

Overall, “Family Portrait” feels a little long, possibly because it takes time to catch up with the Bravermans, for whom much time has passed. But by episode two, things are flying by again, even if a little forced, somewhat over the top drama is tossed in late in the second episode. Bottom line, television’s favorite, heart warming family is back with the same quality of heart, humor, and realism fans have come to expect. It feels good.

Parenthood ends with tears and a wedding

NBC's Parenthood is always among the first of the network shows to bow out for the season, and with last night's episode, "My Brother's Wedding," it does so again. Crosby (Dax Shepard) and Jasmine (Joy Bryant) rush their wedding into existence in less than a week. This happens despite Crosby's feud with Adam (Peter Krause), which heats up as Adam pressures Crosby into selling their business. Also, Julia (Erika Christensen) and Joel (Sam Jaeger) struggle with their devastation at not getting the baby they were promised, and consider other options, while other Bravermans fall in and out of love.

Crosby and Jasmine getting married is long overdue. For awhile, it appears that the two are ready to move on, both dating delightful people, who are great additions to the series. But in a cast as full as Parenthood's is, there just isn't any room for too many extras, and they were superfluous. Yes, the idea isn't romantic, but it's realistic for the confines of a network television budget. And so, gone are Dr. Joe (DB Woodside) and Lily (Courtney Ford), as regrettable as that may be.

In some ways, Crosby and Jasmine's nuptials in "My Brother's Wedding" come out of nowhere, as the characters have been separated for quite a bit of time, and only reunite in the penultimate episode of the season. On the other hand, this is a plot thread begun in the very first episodes of Parenthood, and one this has often seemed an inevitable conclusion. Crosby is finally mature enough to handle a family, and so he gets one. It's nice that Parenthood decides to stop playing around and just get them together already, in a hopefully permanent situation, even if it may have been done partially due to fear of cancellation.

The main story of "My Brother's Wedding," more than the wedding itself, is the fight between Crosby and Adam. These two siblings are as close as can be, and their purchase of the Luncheonette earlier this season solidified that. While the two have plenty of stories together prior to this arc, seeing them in business together creates a whole new, welcome, dynamic. To think that they might give it up for money, admittedly, a whole lot of money, is heartbreaking.

That is the crux of the fight. The Luncheonette is Crosby's dream, but Adam only sees it as a business. Worried about his family's financial future, Adam is eager to sell, even before the offer is upped considerably. He doesn't think about what it means to Crosby all that much, and certainly doesn't even consider how the business has brought them closer together.

Crosby, on the other hand, is not only in his dream career, but genuinely seems to enjoy working with Adam. It's this affection that convinces him to let Adam sell, not wanting to deny his elder brother his own dreams. Until Adam sees this, it looks like the partnership might be over. But in a very touching wedding toast, almost coming too late, Adam waxes the truth of the matter, and decides to turn down the offer. It's a prime example of the best that Parenthood has to offer, and a moment that will rank among the series's best, even should the show go on for ten years. As it should.

Joel and Julia are wrecked in "My Brother's Wedding," but not surprised, when Zoe (Rosa Salazar) decides to back out of the adoption. While Zoe does seem sincere when she says she had no inkling that she wants to back out of the adoption prior to her son's birth, it's a fear that haunts Joel and Julia all season long. And with good cause. As parents themselves, they know how the birth of a child can change a person. For Zoe, she is leaving this ordeal enriched and in a much better place, and is rightfully grateful for everything Joel and Julia have done for her. But for the couple, Zoe deciding to be a mother is a painful betrayal, and Zoe is lucky that they handle it with grace, when anger would be perfectly justifiable here.

However, Joel and Julia's plot going forward in "My Brother's Wedding" seems rushed. They immediately go to someone to expand the pool of children they are looking to take in. When they are asked if they would be willing for a last minute placement, and agree, it's highly predictable that they will have a child by the end of the hour. And sure enough, they do, though he's a boy at least as old as their daughter, Sydney (Savannah Paige Rae), rather than a newborn. Only in television, with the threat that Parenthood may not get a fourth season, would a bureaucratic system move so swiftly!

If Joel and Julia thought the risk of losing Zoe's baby was great, wait until they get attached to this boy! His mother is incarcerated, and only gives up her rights to him up to keep him out of "the system," assumedly, foster care. It seems incredibly likely that, should the show return, she will be freed at some point and seek to get custody of her son back. Joe and Julia may be much better caretakers than this unseen criminal mommy, but courts usually side with the biological parents, if that's at all possible. This could end in even more tears, which would not be fair to the characters or the fans of Parenthood, who have suffered along with the couple.

Sarah (Lauren Graham) also has babies on her mind when she dumps Mark (Jason Ritter). Mark is willing to do without children, something he'd really like to have, but Sarah isn't about to let him make that sacrifice for her. She has a point. Mark may think he is making the right decision now, but who's to say that he won't regret it later in life?

To the delight of many a fan, Mark wins her back and proposes, which she accepts, by the end of "My Brother's Wedding." The question is, how successful will this be? Sarah's fear about Mark's potential regrets are real and unresolved. The simplest solution would be to have Sarah get pregnant, then come around to the idea of raising another child. After all, viewers have gone through enough heartbreak with this pair. However, that's also an anti-feminist story, in a way, which could offend a number of women. In that regard, it may seem a little old fashioned should this happen, but compromise is also the key to any successful relationship, and might just need to happen here if the two are destined to stay together. That is, if Ritter doesn't get another series. Budget be damned, lock him in as a series regular Parenthood! It's necessary!

New love blossoms as Drew (Miles Heizer) and Amy (Skyler Day) decide to do the nasty in "My Brother's Wedding." That's a crude description of what has been a sweet, young romance. But how else to talk about it when they sneak upstairs and get it on with their family right below at the wedding? Just because it's a season finale, does not mean that Parenthood should have rushed this along. Their hooking up is actually a great scene for those who like love. But the circumstances surrounding it are this episode's misstep.

In the meantime, Amber (Mae Whitman) must choose between her job and being with Bob Little (Jonathan Tucker). He is her boss, and running for office, so it wouldn't be cool for him to sleep with his assistant. And yet, Bob, who is supposedly a "great politician" doesn't concern himself with this. He is genuinely interested in Amber, and also in need of her capabilities as his assistant. There is no discussion of him considering how it might hurt his standing with the voters. And so the choice falls to Amber and Amber alone.

It's a shame that this is handled clumsily, and the resolution stretched out an episode or two longer than it should be just so it winds up in the season finale. But Amber makes the right choice. Yes, it would be terrific to see her in a sturdy relationship with Bob, who seems like a good fit. However, Amber is only 19, and just starting out in the professional world. She should not give up a chance at a real career doing something that she is good at for any guy. If they are meant to be together, it can still happen down the road. She is smart to not toss out the opportunity at this juncture.

Amber's story channels the classic head versus heart debate. Many people of a romantic notion always root for heart. In reality, head must sometimes be given the preference. Not all the time, mind you, but in certain situations. The one presented in "My Brother's Wedding" for Amber just feels like one of those times. So while Amber and Bob not being together might be sad, it's the right thing for the character and the show.

Lastly, it is worth noting who Crosby's best man is. The character is named Billy, and he is played by Derek Phillips. Phillips played the character of Billy on Jason Katim's other series, Friday Night Lights. This Billy has a different last name, but fans of Katim, who created Parenthood, will not miss the reference, as Parenthood's Billy acts very much like early Friday Night Lights Billy. Also, this could just be coincidence, but the woman in the green dress that Billy dances with at the wedding in "My Brother's Wedding" looks an awful lot like Dana Wheeler-Nicholson, who played Billy's mother-in-law on FNL.


In all, Parenthood delivers a moving, fantastic season finale. If the world is just, the story will continue next fall on NBC.

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Parenthood takes a "Road Trip"

     Last night, NBC's Parenthood returns with Zeek (Craig T. Nelson) leading the family on a "Road Trip" to visit his mother (Frances Sternhagen, The Closer, ER, Sex and the City). Things get off to a bumpy start when Kristina (Monica Potter) chooses to keep Max (Max Burkholder) home as punishment. From there, various children and their parents squabble, until eventually Zeek leaves the whole clan at a motel. But of course, in the end, everyone comes together to enjoy a wonderful birthday party, and Zeek's mother even tells her son that she loves him.

     "Road Trip" is a fine filler episode of Parenthood. It has the essential elements that make the series, the most important being family at odds with each other, working through their problems, and letting love win out. Yes, it's sappy, and not without cheese. But it's also the bread and butter of family drama, and since Parenthood is firmly in that genre, it's not unforgivable to spend an episode every once in awhile focusing solely on that.

     Kristina's decision to keep Max home is dumb, though the scene leading to it will seem familiar to many a parent. Adam (Peter Krause) disagrees with his wife's actions, though he defends the decision to Zeek. But the bottom line is, Max isn't seeing consequences, so he isn't going to change his behavior. Taking away the trip is the first thing Kristina blurts out, and so she must follow through. As a parent, it's the right decision once the threat is made, no matter how much Kristina might regret her words. More curious is why Max cares about missing such an adventure all that much, considering road trips are bound to go off schedule and be unpredictable, something he hates. No matter. His demonstration of regret, and apology through action is enough to earn him a reprieve without Kristina having to look weak.
     Zeek is the real child in "Road Trip." At least, he throws tantrums like one. Sure, he's justified in being upset at Crosby (Dax Shepard) for not watching the chair that is intended to be a gift for Zeek's mother closely enough, as it is stolen. But the rest of his frustration is silly. His grown kids drop everything to make this trek for him. They are trying to be there for their father. They are entitled, as Joel (Sam Jaeger) does, to tease Zeek about his "paper GPS" and walkie-talkies, which Zeek brings because one "can't use cell phones while driving," as if the giant electronics of old are safer. The bottom line is, they are there. If that isn't good enough for Zeek, he's a very hard man to please.

     Now some of Zeek's attitude stems from his mother's treatment of him. Supposedly, she never says "I love you," unlike Zeek to his own kids, and isn't easily satisfied with Zeek's life. Yet, none of that is in evidence when they finally have their confrontation, with Zeek bragging on his kids, she agreeing with him, and then uttering the three words he longs to hear. It's debatable on how well this works, because it's a good story that no matter how old one is, one still tries to please one's parent. However, Zeek also seems to go a little too far, and his mother doesn't seem that bad, other than a few passive aggressive comments, like about her gift of an egg poacher. So, really, this comes down to assuming that things are as the characters say they are, rather than being solely concerned with what appears on screen.

     Adam is a lot like his father, despite how much they clash. This is evidenced in the way he handles Haddie (Sarah Ramos) texting instead of talking to him. Adam acts like a child, without giving Haddie an explanation as to why. She has to be the adult and apologize. It's reasonable that Adam expect to have some chat time with hsi daughter, but unreasonable that he doesn't just state that outright. His comment of "if you don't know, then..." about his anger is very immature. Thank goodness Haddie steps up and makes things right before Adam acts completely ridiculous. Yet, because it's reinforcing a family trait, this subplot fits into "Road Trip."

     The subplot about Drew (Miles Heizer) walking in on his mother, Sarah (Lauren Graham), having sex is a classic, in that so many series have already done it. But Parenthood doesn't blow things out of proportion, and only semi-resolves the issue, saying it will take time. This is smart, and not exactly typical for television. There's no big eruption, or moment that gets too schmaltzy. Plus, it's far from the focus of "Road Trip." Kudos for a fresh way of handling an old standard.

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Parenthood is "Missing" nothing

     NBC's Parenthood ends their fall run with "Missing," Adam (Peter Krause) and Kristina (Monica Potter) both have to work on Saturday, so they cancel a planned trip to the museum for Max (Max Burkholder). The boy is left in Haddie's (Sarah Ramos) care, and sneaks away anyway, sending Haddie and Adam into a panic. They search frantically, and are unable to reach Kristina, because she has her phone on silent since she is mad at Adam. Max is found safe and sound, with Haddie being the only most upset by the whole ordeal. On a positive note, it does help Kristina realize what is really important, and she makes up with Adam.

     As frustrating as it is when Rachel (Alexandra Daddario, White Collar) kisses Adam, everything that comes after it on Parenthood is realistic and well written. It's not Adam's fault that the incident happens, mostly, but Kristina's anger is understandable. It's also totally believable that they would get caught up in their own stuff and forget just how bad Max takes changes of plans. The phone conversations between Kristina and Rachel in "Missing" are weird, but necessary to resolve things between them. And while Parenthood does choose to have Max go "Missing," a big, dramatic move that most shows would do to improve ratings, it is handled with care and an authentic level of emotional reaction, rather than going over the top. All in all, this story shakes out very well, allowing fine acting moments for Krause, Potter, and Ramos.

     Kudos also must go to Parenthood for the handling of Crosby (Dax Shepard) and Jasmine (Joy Bryant). It is not uncommon for exes, especially those sharing a child, to fall back into bed together. Should "Missing" go into sitcom territory, a comedy of errors would ensue, ending with the parents getting back together. Or in a place where neither is happy, but they are on the path to reconnecting. Instead, Crosby realizes just how good a guy Dr. Joe (DB Woodside) is, and steps away, letting Jasmine go. As much as fans want to see Crosby and Jasmine together, it might be wiser for Parenthood to instead make a permanent bond between Jasmine and Joe. They are both good people, despite Jasmine's slip, Woodside is a great actor, and it would be the unexpected thing to do. Surely, viewers cannot hate Dr. Joe, after seeing how he cares for Jabbar (Tyree Brown). Why not go for it?

     Julia (Erika Christensen) faces a tough situation when her potential adopted baby's daddy wants money, something illegal and wrong that she will not cave into. But then, in "Missing," Julia has a difficult time shutting out the mommy-to-be, Zoe (Rosa Salazar). This is because Julia is a kind, caring individual, and she has bonded with Zoe. Zoe, meanwhile, has few people she can go to, and it caught in the middle between her boyfriend and Julia. After a fight with her man, she goes to Julia for comfort, and Julia reluctantly gives it. Julia can't help herself. Whether Zoe is able to give Julia the baby or not, a possibility still very much up in the air, there is something between these two that will not be easily thrown out. Until Zoe gets back on firmer ground, Julia will be there for her.

     Sarah (Lauren Graham) has no such drama with her own baby situation. Babysitting Nora for Kristina and Adam, she is pleased to see Mark (Jason Ritter) take so sqweetly to the infant. Later, relaxing together, Mark blurts out that he could see himself having a baby with her. Again, in other dramas, this would be a break up moment for the couple, with Sarah arguing she is too old to raise another child, since hers are grown. Instead,  Parenthood recognizes that there is some serious, deep love between the two, and lets Sarah not be weirded out. It would be interesting for the two to concieve a child, and suddenly, that seems like a possibility. Either way is fine, but hopefully Parenthood will not let Mark go anywhere, because there needs to be more for this couple.

     Amber (Mae Whitman) is definitely the connection point for many young viewers, a juicy, desirable demographic. She is working as hard as she can, but still finds it difficult to make ends meet. So she has to try to find a better paying job, because minimum wage doesn't cut it to keep a cheap, old car and a crummy apartment. Something is certainly wrong with this picture, but it's the same something felt by young adults all over America. And it doesn't feel preachy or forced to include this arc in "Missing" and other Parenthood episodes.

     Try as one might, it is very, very difficult to find anything wrong with "Missing." It is a supremely wonderful episode, and a great example of when Parenthood gets it right, which is often. The series doesn't get too dramatic, and doesn't make things happen just for drama's sake in "Missing." Sure, they have in the past, as every show does. But the mistakes in Parenthood are fewer and further than between than most. And none are currently in sight.

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"Forced Family Fun" just another part of Parenthood

     In this week's installment of NBC's Parenthood, "Forced Family Fun," Kristina (Monica Potter), saddened by the way her family seems to be growing apart, makes the whole clan plan to spend an evening together. But stressed out by their complaining, she leaves them standing on the side of the road. Also, Crosby (Dax Shepard) is uncomfortable when Jabbar (Tyree Brown) spends time with Dr. Joe (DB Woodside), Julia (Erika Christensen) worries over Zoe's (Rosa Salazar) diet, and Sarah (Lauren Graham) helps Seth (John Corbett) through rehab.

     Kristina is right that a family needs to make time to spend together, and from her perspective, as of "Forced Family Fun," they aren't. Adam (Peter Krause) has the new business he's trying to get off the ground with Crosby, Haddie (Sarah Ramos) is a senior preparing for college, and Max (Max Burkholder) is still adjusting to being in a mainstream class in a public school, so they are justifiably busy. While at home with the new baby by herself all day, Kristina's not being too selfish to ask for a little time with the others. She isn't even trying to get them to help out with the infant, something she probably needs, as being with someone who can't talk all of the time is driving her a little crazy. Who can blame her?

     It's also understandable that Kristina has the reaction that she does, stranding Adam, Haddie, and Max on the side of the road, albeit, not far from where they live. The chastised relations do their best to make it up to their mother and wife, while Kristina apologizes for her rash actions. No one is really in the wrong more than the others, as Kristina does over react, and the others are trying to please her. Just normal, realistic family problems, with a little bit of early empty nest syndrome thrown in for good measure. They will work themselves out in time, per Parenthood's typical trend, and this is not a situation that bears worrying about.

     Unlike, say, Julia's baby issues. Having to watch someone like Zoe carry an unborn child that Julia is adopting is hard for the resident control freak of Parenthood. Joel (Sam Jaeger) tries to calm Julia, but both realize that they can't let Zoe go on eating raw sushi all the time, as she does in "Forced Family Fun." It's just not good for the baby. Julia tries to appeal to Zoe's sense, promising that she isn't just speaking up because she is getting the baby. And she's probably not. Julia is a warm-hearted individual, who cares for Zoe. But that doesn't mean that Zoe isn't offended when confronted.

     Thankfully, Zoe ends up going over to Julia's house for dinner, showing signs of forgiving the intrusion. She realizes Julia has her best interests at heart, and as Julia fears, Zoe has no one else. As such, it's nice that Julia, and Joel, to a lesser extent, can be there to offer their support during Zoe's pregnancy. Zoe may have been a stranger, but now she's becoming quite close.

     The worry here is, Zoe does not want an open adoption, and neither do Joel and Julia. What will happen if the three become very friendly, and one of the parties begins to change their mind? It makes sense for Zoe to have a relationship with her unborn child down the road, even though it will cause plenty of awkwardness and confusion, when she likes the family so much, and there are two mothers. But that could also interfere with the child's development. It's a tricky situation that bares careful consideration before any more major decisions are finalized.

     Another serious event in this week's Parenthood is Seth's rehab. Sarah wants to be there for the father of her children, but her feelings do not just stem from sharing offspring. If they did, she wouldn't have to be as involved as she is. And frankly, the kids are old enough to make up their own minds about their dad, and follow their own direction. In fact, Sarah is more into Seth's recovery than either of their children. The fact of the matter is, Sarah obviously still harbors romantic feelings for Seth. Which may not exactly be healthy.

     That's why Zeek (Craig T. Nelson), shut out by Sarah for voicing his concerns, asks Adam to have a conversation with his sister in "Forced Family Fun." Both men are worried about what getting back with Seth might mean for Sarah. Given Seth's track record of disappointment and hurt, Sarah should definitely guard her heart if she wants to continue to see him. But shutting off emotion isn't easy or natural for Sarah, and it's much more likely that she will be deeply wounded if Seth slips again.

     Furthermore, Sarah is already in a stable, healthy relationship with Mark (Jason Ritter) in Parenthood. Mark may be quite a but younger than Sarah, but they mesh really well. Mark is being supportive of the whole Seth situation, but he is also growing weary of the number of times he is put in second place for Sarah's attentions. Who can blame him? Sarah already put Mark on hold before, and after reuniting, it really isn't fair for her to keep stringing him along, no matter how sympathetic her dilemma is. Mark is the smarter, more mature choice to make, and Sarah needs to commit fully before she loses him. If she chooses Seth, she'll probably end up without either guy.

     Finally, Crosby has some valid beef with Jasmine (Joy Bryant) in "Forced Family Fun." They previously agree to discuss any potential significant other entering their son, Jabbar's, life. She allows Dr. Joe, whom she is dating, to play with Jabbar without consulting Crosby. But Crosby does arrive twenty minutes early, or else Dr. Joe would have been gone. Jabbar just wants to play, as any kid does, and doesn't understand the situation fully, so it's no wonder that Joe and Jasmine allow it. Which means that there is a legitimate problem where no one is clearly or completely in the wrong.

     Dr. Joe is sticking around for at least a little while. Not only is he Jabbar's doc, but he's also been picked up by Kristina for baby Nora. Which is great news, because Woodside is always a pleasure to watch. However, this means no immediate happy reconciliation for fans of Jasmine and Crosby being together. It also means that Jabbar's life is about to get more complicated. If Parenthood chooses to seriously pursue Dr. Joe, the series should consider keeping him permanently, and just letting Crosby move on. Otherwise, adding this much drama puts it as risk of becoming too cheesy, and sends it down the path of so many shows before it.


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"I Don't Want to Do This Without You" Parenthood

     NBC's Parenthood is back for a third season, beginning with "I Don't Want to Do This Without You." Life is never boring for the Bravermans. Adam (Peter Krause) is discouraged by the job market, and is tempted by Crosby's (Dax Shepard) pitch to run a music studio together. But financial concerns make him hesitate. Sarah (Lauren Graham) is hurt when her daughter, Amber (Mae Whitman), moves into her own apartment, and only stops by Sarah's 40th birthday party. Luckily, Sarah reconnects with Mark (Jason Ritter, returning now that The Event is kaput), who makes her feel better. Julia (Erika Christensen) grows desperate for a baby. Alex (Michael B. Jordan) is arrested.

     Adam is undergoing an incredibly relatable plot in today's economy. Out of work, almost out of savings, he begins to grow frustrated at the lack of career opportunities. He starts applying for terrible jobs, well  below his skill level and pay grade, just to have some income coming in. But he is tempted by a dream. For most of us, this would never work out. Because this is television, often an escapist medium, Adam will probably accept Crosby's offer, and they will do well. Even as the rest of the music industry implodes. I don't know if Parenthood is making viewers feel better with the fantasy, or encouraging people to make irrational decisions. Let's hope nobody sues the series.

     For Crosby, who has a steady income, it's also a risk. Being a homeowner now, and with a son, Jabbar (Tyree Brown) to take care of, can he really afford to go out on a limb? True, Crosby already works in the music industry, and may have enough contacts to make a serious go of things. But should he try when the payoff is so uncertain, and staying put guarantees much needed stability? His decision is a little tricky, although if the idea does fail, seeing Adam ruined may hurt Crosby far more than it hurts himself. Which might give him incentive to work even harder at the job.

     Then again, Crosby is dating another woman he isn't serious about (Wilfred's Fiona Gubelmann), so maybe he hasn't grown up very much.

     Julia has a dream of a different kind. Unable to conceive, she begins looking at other options. But like Adam, she finds her prospects bleaker than she would like. So she starts looking for an easy solution. One scheme she has is to ask to buy her coffee vendor's kid. It's an insane idea, as everyone, including her husband, Joel (Sam Jaeger), tells her. Yet, in true Julia fashion, she will not let go of it. Again, because this is television, it will probably work out for her, unlike it would in real life. This is both heartening and depressing at the same time.

     As Parenthood moves into season three, it needs to be careful not to fall under the Brothers & Sisters curse. Both series start as wonderful shows about close, extended families. But as Brothers & Sisters made season after season, five in total, the writers turned to less and less believable plots, forcing drama just to keep the show going. Parenthood needs to remember what makes a family drama magical and special in its early days, and not allow it to show its age. All three siblings in the above paragraphs are treading dangerous ground here, and it could go either way.

     In life, everyone has to grow up. Amber is out of high school, and after making the decision to put college on hold for awhile, she seeks to begin her adult life. This involves getting a new haircut and finding a small, in-need-of-work apartment in a soon-to-be-trendy area of town. Seriously, the place doesn't even have a kitchen! But Amber falls in love with it instantly, and soon signs the lease.

     While Amber is in a dreamer phase of her life, like her uncles and aunt previously discussed, for her, the stakes are much lower. She is just starting out and doesn't have the ties or responsibilities to worry about that the older family members do. If Amber lands on her face because of lack of employment or inability to pay the rent, she still has a safety net: she can move back in with her mother and grandparents. For her, there are few reasons not to take the chance.

     Sarah doesn't see it that way, though. She sees it as Amber abandoning her. Sarah's milestone 40th birthday might have something to do with the increased neurosis, but part of the worrying is also just who she is. Sarah is shocked that Amber would want to move into such a dump, and can't believe her daughter doesn't even care if she picks up her high school diploma or not. Thank goodness Sarah's mom, Camille (Bonnie Bedelia), is there to speak some sense to her.

     While Ritter's Mark re-enters Sarah's life now almost entirely for behind the scenes, practical reasons, it's perfect, story-wise. Sarah needs a pick me up, a distraction, something to make her feel good about herself. She is aging, and while she has accomplished a few things, she has much more that she wants to do. Having the younger Mark around to shower her with affection, and steal Amber's diploma from the school, should give her a needed boost... as long as he doesn't get caught and fired for the theft.

     Alex's arrest is dumb. He goes to a party to pick up Haddie (Sarah Ramos), who is drunk, and ends up hitting a guy who won't let them out the door. Alex makes the smart choice by not hanging around, and the other guy is being a jerk. Hitting isn't so intelligent, but under the circumstance, can be forgiven. Why the police are called on such a minor matter is a puzzle. Also, why the police are not concerned about the underage drinking going on all around them also seems suspicious. Instead, all the blame is tossed on this guy who works so hard to make something good out of his life, after having far fewer opportunities than most people. While this story may showcase the type of man Alex is, and allow some meaty dramatic material for the terrific Jordan to work with, it's weak sauce for the fans, and in the authenticity department.

     Still, love that Max (Max Burkholder) references Friday Night Lights with Michael B. Jordan, former star of that series, in the car! Both FNL and Parenthood share producer Jason Katims, which may be the reason for the shout out.

     Parenthood also stars Craig T. Nelson, Monica Potter, Joy Bryant, Miles Heizer, and Savannah Paige Rae.


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